You probably are well aware of the fact that orgasms occur because of muscle contractions in the body, combined with an increase in blood pressure. A result of intense pleasure, when it comes to decoding the female orgasm secrecy, one can glance through several books, publications, online reviews and whatnot! But having gone through all of this, most men (and at times women) remain confused. If you are among the bewildered, today we have jotted down for you some facts about female orgasms
One of three women gets orgasms on a regular basis during sexual intercourse. Few can attain orgasms with sexual intercourse but require extra acts to arouse action. Recent studies show that an orgasm is a sexual climax no matter which way you get it. How a woman reaches an orgasm has nothing to do with her mental health or emotional maturity. More than 70% of women have orgasms as a result of direct clitoral stimulation – and, unlike men, we can enjoy multiples. Women are not as quick to come down from their aroused state as men are, post-sex. Many can get straight back into it and experience it all over again.
The average female orgasm lasts between six and 10 seconds – although for some lucky girls it can last up to 20 seconds. At the moment of orgasm, certain areas of your brain that control emotion shut down. The area that processes fear is deactivated, and your ‘vigilance for danger’ switch also turns off momentarily. Women who were capable of sexual climax in the past, but can no more do so, may be troubled with some medical issues or fallout from medicinal drugs. Women, who have never arrived at sexual climax successfully, may simply be unaware about what they need to be able to attain orgasm.
Less than a third of all women regularly orgasm during sex, while three-quarters of men always do. But if their partners spend more than 21 minutes on foreplay, the stats zoom up to produce nine out of 10 fully satisfied women.
For a supercharged experience, experts recommend the ‘extended sexual orgasm’, which can keep you coming for up to 20 minutes! Get your man to stroke your labia for five minutes before touching your clitoris. Breathing deeply, do pelvic-floor squeezes and when he feels two-second contractions as you near orgasm, get him to move his fingers to stroke inside your vagina. After you’ve come, he should move his fingers between your vagina and clitoris and, stroking gently, launch another wave of orgasms Women take longer to come than men? The average woman only needs around 8 minutes but, according to sexologists, some go off after one minute’s stimulation, while others need half an hour or more.
While there are lots of ways of love making that can help a woman reach sexual climax, in the end, a woman is the cause for her own pleasure. Intercommunication between partners is important as well. It is up to the woman to communicate with her partner. Now switch stimulation techniques. If you’ve just reached orgasm through clitoral stimulation, try penetration to continue the sensations. Often, the first orgasm is sharper and quicker, but the second could be longer. Stimulation of the G-spot can raise your pain threshold by 107% at orgasm. Some experts believe the same area helps to manage the pain of childbirth.
About 10% of women have the disability of not attaining sexual climax during sexual intercourse. This inability to reach orgasm is known as Anorgasmia. It may either be primary or secondary. Primary Anorgasmia is a stage in which a woman has never been able to attain sexual climax by any means. Secondary Anorgasmia is an orgasm felt at some point in the past times or situational (orgasm may be felt in certain intimate spots but not others; for instance, with foreplay but not with sexual intercourse).